My relationship started two years back on the fact and promise that we will get married once he is settled. He is a 1996 born Gujarati boy and I’m 1995 born a Punjabi girl. After some time his friends started interfering in our relationship. Because of that we started fighting. I met his parents and requested them to please stop the unnecessary interference of his friends. But again Uske friends be Uske parents ko bhi manipulate kar diya n mere boyfriend ko bhi ki mujhse shadi na Kare. We are ready for marriage so we have established a physical relationship. Ab wo Nahi bol raha hai. Mujhse usse shadi Karni hai coz I love him so much. I want to marry him at any cost. So what should I do now to get married to him?
Asked from: Uttar Pradesh
When it comes to relationships, misunderstandings and conflicts are common. However, if you find yourself in a situation where your boyfriend is not ready for marriage, it is important to understand that you cannot force him into it. If your sexual relationship was consensual and your boyfriend did not make a false promise of marriage, you cannot prove that he refused to marry you after satisfying his sexual desires.
It is crucial to remember that love affairs are not a criminal act, and you cannot initiate a criminal case against him for not wanting to marry you. It is also important to note that a promise of marriage does not confer any civil right, and if your boyfriend retracted his promise due to interference from his friends, you cannot take legal recourse to force him to marry you.
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If you still wish to marry your boyfriend, the best course of action would be to try and resolve the misunderstandings between you both. Communication is key in any relationship, and by talking with him and trying to remove all doubts, you may be able to convince him to marry you. However, if he is still not ready, it is important to respect his decision and move on.
It is also worth noting that attempting to compel him to marry you can result in a voidable marriage under section 12 of the Hindu Marriage Act. Therefore, it is essential to consider all options and make decisions based on mutual respect and understanding.
In conclusion, it is important to understand that forcing someone into a marriage is not a viable option. Instead, it is essential to communicate and try to resolve misunderstandings in a relationship. Love affairs are not a criminal act, and it is important to respect your partner’s decision regarding marriage.
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