My girlfriend habitually engaged in sex and vulgar chat with many people now threatening to file a false case against me. I have been in a relationship with a girl since 2018. Everything was good until lockdown. We were in a live-in relationship. But the moment I came to my hometown she was having boyfriends behind my back.
When I returned to my hometown and now I found out she was doing sex chating. Vvulgar chats all day night with like 40 plus boys and had 6-7 bfs. She is 22 and some boys are uncles, some are married, some are engaged like 35 of age, some are 32 and I found it via her gmail id.
Now I have so much anger inside me that she used my emotions. My parents are aware of her. She used to talk to them also with my sisters. She was betraying me the moment the long distance started and she was always like, I'm the most loyal girl, she always compared her to sita ji. Now I wanna tell her parents about her deeds that they have raised a pathetic person.
It's been 4 months I'm in depression, there is so much insecurity inside me. Her sister is saying if you tell anyone then I will frame you under rape case. What should I do to save myself in because I don't have trust on her family. She can do anything, so what should I do to save myself.
You both are major and have the capability to make decisions in your life. If you find that she has been indulging in sex chat or vulgar behaviour with many people, there is no need to keep relations with her. You are free to leave her and end the relationship with her.
So far as the threatening is concerned, you did not commit any offence while living with her in the live-in relationship. That relationship was consensual and there was no compulsion or cheating on your part.
In this situation no offence has been made out against you. If you think that she may misuse or abuse the process of law by lodging a false first information report (FIR) against you, then you should first lodge an FIR against her for extortion and cheating.
She has misused you in the pretext of love and affection. Therefore, she has committed the offence of cheating because she has deceived you. Threatening to lodge false FIR is also an offence. Hence, you should lodge an FIR whenever you think that it is the last resort to get rid of these circumstances.
